1. When the marriage has been agreed upon, the father of the bridegroom visits the father of the bride, and each provides a few handfuls of paddy. These are mixed together and then divided between the two fathers by the priest, and the bridegroom’s fathertakes his share home. This ceremony is called dhanbatti. This paddy is reserved to be parched in the chulha .
2. Then the females of the bride’s family perform the chumawan or chumauna ceremony. In this, five women take rice between the thumbs and forefingers of both hands and touch in order her feet, knees, and shoulders with it. They then put it on her head. On the fifth or eighth day before the expected arrival of the wedding procession, the preparations are made in the bride’s house. If they take place five days previously, they are called pachmangra ; if eight days athmangra.
3. On the ceremony of matkorwa , the women of the family and their friends go singing to a well. They level a piece of ground near the well and smooth it down with lal mati, a kind of yellow clay which is generally found immediately over gravel. They then dig a clod up out of it, and carry it home on the head of one of them. They make a fireplace, chulha, of this mud in the center of the court-yard, aangan. In somewhere a plantain-tree and a bamboo is set up in the courtyard, under which the mud is placed.
4. The day before the expected arrival of the marriage procession, the family sets up a bamboo shed in the court-yard over thefireplace. This shed is called marhwa, or manro. An earthen pot, called kalsa, with a four- wicked lamp, called chaumukh,on its top is placed in the house where the family god is placed for the purposes of the marriage. This house is called kohbar.
5. Some of the pot are placed at marhwa. A plough-shaft , haris, a plough-yoke palo, and some bamboo twigs, karchis are then buried in the ground in the centre of the marhwa. Then five men bring out from the kohbar the kalsa, and place it under the marhwa in front of the bamboo twigs. The father of the bride then anoints the four posts of the marhwa with ghee and on each the mother applies some vermilion (senur). The name of this ceremony is or ghidhari.
6. At the same time worship is offered to the progenitors of the family, which is called mantri puja. Then five men take turmeric (hardi), oil and dub grass (dubi), which they scatter on the bride’s forehead. This is called hardi charhae. Then women anoint her body with oil and turmeric. This is called ubtan.
7. Next follows the ceremony of swallowing the mango fibre. This is called imli ghontai. An elder male of the mother’s family (usually her brother) puts into her left hand a present of money or ornaments. The barber’s wife then gives him the center fiber of one of the mango leaves hanging up in the marhwa, which he presents to the bride’s mouth. She then bites a small piece off this and deposits it in the hollow of her mother`sown right hand, into which the elder male pours a little water. The piece of fiber is called kharika. This the mother holds over her daughter’s head and gulps it all down.